Comments on: Marriage Restoration

By: AAng

AAng — Sat, 04 Feb 2012 16:22:21 +0000

Dear Jham,

I will be praying for you though your entry was 5 months ago. I do hope they have improved since. My husband cheated on me, once when I was pregnant with my now 7 year old son and again recently when he confessed to me 5 months ago. The strength that I am receiving to stay and continue to live life as if nothing has happened truly comes from the Lord Jesus. I am always amazed at how God refuses to let me go and also ashamed to admit that I only drew closer to God when these crises happened. I never did heal from the first time and now I am working on true healing with my Lord Jesus. I understand the lack of emotional connection between you and your husband, it is extremely painful and it is usually the beginning of the marriage breaking down. I can see now that when a woman’s spirit is aligned with God’s will, it brings about an amazing change in the marriage,, something I cannot explain but I am more connected now with m husband 5 months since his confession then when we first got married 10 years ago and he is a non-believer. Continue to pray that the Holy Spirit administer to your husband that he may realise that his destructive habits are ultimately going to destroy the marriage and destroy him. The let go and let God do the work for you. Amen!

By: Kevin

Kevin — Fri, 03 Feb 2012 09:47:51 +0000

I have been seperated now for over a year. My wife walked out and went to her mother after she gave birth to my first born son, my only child. She has expressed she is not happy there, and have no reason for her departure. It is really hard I need your prayer. have been married for 9 years.

By: JoanneMaria

JoanneMaria — Sun, 04 Dec 2011 18:35:33 +0000

My heartfelt prayer is for a Christmas Miracle, our relationship restored happy and in love again, the beginning of a lifetime of love and happiness with one another, in Jesus’ name I pray. Amen.

I’ve been heartbroken for a long time now and I still believe God for the restoration of my relationship. Waiting brings hopelessness but I fight it off by focusing on God, nothing it too hard for him, he sees my heart, my persistence and I know at his set time he will suddenly, unexpectedly restore our love above and beyond anything I could hope for, it is worth all the effort, and pain and when we come out the other side happy, in love in our beautiful future together it’ll all be worth it. What God brought together he will restore. Lets not give up 5 minutes before our miracles! Christmas, 2011 is going to be full of unexpected, happy, wonderful surprises! God is working as we speak. I wish this happy ending for all of us. God Bless You!

By: Dione

Dione — Thu, 10 Nov 2011 21:10:37 +0000

I have been separated from my husband for 1 yr and 5 mos. We have been married for 20 yrs and have 3 beautiful children. We both were having inappropriate relationships (not affairs)with other people when we separated. Now that I have matured spiritually, I have been believing God for the restoratin of my marriage. I have been praying and preparing for fasting, but mainly exercising my faith. God has shown me that He will restore my marriage, but in my situation I had spoken death into my marriage. God let me know I needed to Repent, Recant and Re-speak those things I had spoken. Just recently my husband moved in with another woman. I found this website because I needed a little encouragement this particular day and I have found it. I thank all of you for encouraging me to continue to hold on.

I will continue to keep my faith and speak life into my marriage. I feel blessed and know that I am. Once God has completed His work, I will post my testimony for those seeking restoration.

By: RS

RS — Wed, 09 Nov 2011 19:47:26 +0000

I saw your reply on the computer today. I too have been separated now, over a year since June of 2010. My husband and I both were believers when we got married and we were in ministry. I don’t know if your situation has turned around as of the writing of this e-mail or not. I know the pain and praying, hoping and waiting. It gets discouraging. While my husband and I do spend time together on occasion, it is not near as much as I would like. I love him and miss him very much. Often when I go to church and see other husband and wife ministry teams or husbands and wives working together in ministry it almost breaks my heart because my husband is not currently in ministry or doing the will of God.

By: Giofighter

Giofighter — Sun, 30 Oct 2011 21:11:20 +0000

My soon to be ex wife was married before and this is my first marriage.

We dated while she was separated and lived in sin for 6 years.

We got married and immediately had a daughter…she has a daughter from her previous marriage as well.

Our marriage was always rocky, we never truly took time out for each other. The kids ruled the house and God, was on the shelf.

We both USED God as an excuse for blaming but never utilized His power in our marriage.

We separated in 08 and I went on to be very, very sinful.

She always wanted me back but it always came in the form of anger, yelling, judging, cursing, etc…and believe me that my responses were no better.

We always loved each other but just couldn’t work it out.

I continued in terrible sin for 3 years. Finally, she had enough and started dating someone else.

I was beyond upset…through it all I always believed God would bring us back together. The problem was that I never gave God the chance to do His work because I was so busy pleasing myself.

We signed our divorce papers a few months ago and I DO NOT want a divorce…we are waiting for our final decree.

She says we will never be back together again because she is afraid…which was my exact excuse for the last 3 years.

It took another man to point out that I made a huge mistake.

I should NEVER have moved out. I let my role of father, husband, leader fall apart because it was way too easy to do and the ‘world’ accepted that.

I have never cried so much in my entire life than this last year.

I have turned my life back to God but am in so much desperation that I feel lost.
Sometimes I doubt but realize that is Satan telling me that God is a liar.

God is breaking me down and though I may (never) get her back, I am STANDING for the restoration of this marriage and WHEN I get her back….NOTHING will ever break us apart again.

God can do anything…it is our/my ego that has brought me to this point. I have a hard time letting go.

I need to let go and let God. That is really the only way.

By: Valerie

Valerie — Thu, 20 Oct 2011 21:37:27 +0000

Me and my husband started dating since I was 13, today we have 4 children, our youngest is 4, and I know what separation can do to a child. We”ll be married for 5 years next month but we separated for 9 months in 2010. We both were unfaithful and I had backslid from the LORD but the LORD picked me up again when I was at my lowest. He began to show me his love for me and that no matter what I was going through he was and is always with me, many times I wanted to give up and thought that it was hopless because of the things that happened during our marriage, and even my family told me to give up because he was with another lady and they were expecting twins. My heart was broken when I first heard, but only by the grace of JESUS he always gave me the strength not to give up. The LORD would always tell me that my marriage wasn’t over till GOD said it was over. And after nine months my husband came home, and I praise him for everything he’s done in my life, for restoring my marraige and making my husband a better person then he was before, he is slowly starting to come to church, read his bible, and we have our own lil bible studies at home, he is very interested in the bible and I thank GOD that he put it in his heart to learn more about JESUS. He had lost his twin boy at 1 month of age and his other twin lil girl will be turning one next week, and I thank GOD for this lil girl because I love her just as much as I love my children. She comes to visit us every month. But her mother isn’t doing too good and is still grieving for her son, and I would like to ask you for prayers for her that GOD would give her the peace and strength she needs.
One experience that I want to share with everyone is, one ight I was sitting in my living room and watching the grace channel and I decided to call the prayer line and as we started praying I could smell a really strong fragrance of sweet honey or sweet roses, but it’s something that I will never forget. I didn’t understand what it was but the next day I shared it with my auntie and she said that it was the presence of GOD, no matter where you are and what you’ve done GOD will never leave you where you are, he will pick you up and set your feet upon a rock. Keep believing in your mracles for the prayers of the rightrous avail much.

By: sharon

sharon — Sat, 15 Oct 2011 07:01:37 +0000

hi, Iam sharon my marriage has been broken for the past 5 years now.My husband is backsliden and not in the Lord now.There were times i had given up on this relationship completely .God spoke to me thru’ several people,but recently i got a verse from god that said ,i will build you…..I am just holding on to Christ.Our son Abel prays for his dad to return everyday.I am sure MY JESUS will restore our family very soon.Please pray for us……

By: Micah

Micah — Tue, 20 Sep 2011 02:17:16 +0000

Hello,
I have been married to my husband for 1yr and 6 months, we’ve been together for 3yrs. We have a 1 year old son together. We’ve recently seperated. Its been about 2 weeks now and I am so hurt. He told me to leave and of course I took my son. I am now staying at a relatives house, and is missing my husband like crazy. I never had to work because he always provided. Right now he keeps telling me to move on. But made a vow, not only to him but to God. I believe that God is able to do exceedingly above all we can as for and I have to stand on that. I ask that you guys would pray that God will soften my husbands heart and continue to pull him closer to God. Pray that God will continue to deal with him and this seperation will work out for the good. God bless you guys!

Thanks,
Micah

By: Jham

Jham — Sat, 03 Sep 2011 13:03:26 +0000

hi! everyone, i kept reading your testimonies one by one. i’m married for 3 years with my Singaporean husband this coming sept 14.. we’re different nationalities.
that’s why i think its really quite tough and hard for each one of us to adjust and compromise becos of this diffent belief, religion, bringing up and culture.
anyway, Im really asking all of you to pls kindly pray for me and my hubby. we dont have any kids yet, but i findthat our relationship now is very very cold. i dont know how to adjust anymore. i keep asking and begging the Lord to help me, to change me and to change Us both so that we can fit into T. im 26 and his 30,we keep arguing this past few weeks. im trying to explain to him as a wife and as a woman how i feel. bcos he kept playing lots of kind of games daily like PSP,PS3, Cellphone, ipad, soccer, basketball, mwai-thai. etc etc.
this matter becomes the problem that hes always busy doing all this that affected our work, job, business. and even affecting our relationship. we dont sleep together bcos no matter how long ive wait for him so that i can hug him to sleep i cant, cos he always turns to finish playing by 8am. which im already about to awake then hes about to sleep. i started explaining and expressing it to him so that we can talk,, but my husband has a very bad temper. i know im not the best, im not good, im not perfect… thats why i want to talk. but he always refuse and find me irritating him. i dont know what to do already cos before we used to go to church together every sunday… but recently he always dont like to attend and when i ask him why he dont go to church with me anymore this is what he answers me : “cos everytime i go to church its either im late for my soccer game or i cannot play at all” which really hurts me, he really dont have time to me anymore and also dont have time to attend to church. i am so upset. i really dont want to give up, but im really emotional now… i cant stop crying cos he we cant talk nicely without shouting at me and fighting. i just want him to know how much i love him that im already upset that he dont have time with me at all. knowing that were still considered newly couple.. pls pls everyone pls pray for me and my husband. That God will touch us both, change us and give us peace in this marriage life. — thank u